No, Women Shouldnt Have to Wear Makeup to Work

No, Women Shouldnt Have to Wear Makeup to Work When celebrities left and right started announcing theyre off the makeup train in favor of more natural (read less obvious but mucksmuschenstill made up) looks, I rolled my eyes. I simply couldnt muster any feelings about the performative unburdening of it allcloaked as it welches in superficial empowerment. (Celebrities I know you are still wearing makeup. You arent helping anyone).My personal relationship to makeup can only be described as whatever I typically dont leave the house without some undereye concealer and a bit of mascara, even if Im just going to get coffee or go for a walk, but a usual day is pretty limited to exactly that. Some would call that low maintenance, others would say thats ludicrous.Whatever.But things change if Im in a work environment. No matter how laid back the officeopen floor plan, nap pods, coworkers who bring their puppiesIm in full makeup. Not the fun, creative kind of makeup, but boring, workhorse make up concealer covering the shadows under my eyes, some powder toning down the redness of my nose, and cheek tint so I dont look quite so pasty. If anything, Im going for that look all the celebrities are pretending is so noble I just woke up this way, perfectly unblemished, vibrant, and inoffensive.Its bedrngnis the look I might try on the weekends when I put on some winged eyeliner or red lipstick. This makeup is to appear ostensibly professional, or in reality, to pretend not to be a human person with flaws. This routine hasnt felt like a choice.One day on the way to work, it was so humid and gross out that my makeup fully melted off of my face, and I wiped it off before I got to the office. Three people asked me if I was feeling ill or if I needed to go home. They looked uncomfortable when I deadpanned, This is just what my face looks like.At another job, a cut on my eyelid prevented me from wearing makeup for a few days and my babo told me to go home because I looked unprofession al. Never mind that a male colleague a few seats over had obvious undereye shadows and unkempt hair. The message was clear In the office, men are fine as they are, imperfections and all. Women, on the other hand, must be improved.I hadnt given this much thoughtradical feminist as I ambecause it was simply so deeply ingrained in my consciousness. But everything came into sharp focus when I started working at Skillcrush, where were all remote and working from home offices on multiple continents. We have video meetings all the timeand when I joined the team, I would wake up, do my hair and makeup, and walk ten feet to my computer. Then I rolled my eyes at how ridiculous it all was to wipe off my makeup at the end of the day after not even leaving the house.About two weeks in, I realized that I was squarely in the minority of employees putting on the ritz to sit in their own houseif not the only one. My coworkers looked happy and comfortable in their work environments, while I was squir ming in my professional bra.I couldnt figure out why everyone felt so comfortable being themselves, and I envied it until it finally dawned on me. Our CEOeveryones bossdoesnt wear makeup most of the time when she meets with us from her home office, andculture starts at the top. It seems small, but it means that we dont have to, either. She offered us flexible jobs we could do from home and then demonstrated what it actually looks like to fit in your job around your life.Its not enough to have an employee handbook full of platitudes about how cool your company isif your boss doesnt take vacations, you wont, either. If your boss encourages risks but wont take them herself, you cant be expected do the same.When culture starts at the top, its a way for companies to walk the walk, and in our case, it instills gender parity when it comes to how we define professionalism. And for a company that allows us to work from home on our schedule, it makes clear that we dont just have to trade the commutewe can also ditch gendered expectations about how we should present.The idea of choosing whether or not to wear makeup to work might seem trivial, but Id argue that the way women are expected to look at work is one of the many ways in which all women are held to a double standard in the workplace (not to mention the discriminatory, racist ways in which Black women are held to BS definitions of professionalism that dont include natural hair). Its not as simple as picking up the lipstick or notits about how women are perceived as professional or not based on something as silly as how they look.Makeup is fun and anyone can and should wear it whenever they want. Even in my liberated new working world of undereye circles and air-dried hair, I sometimes dab on some lipstick for an afternoon pick-me-up. But exactly zero of my coworkers have ever asked if Im tired, sick, or questioned my ability to do my job, especially while high-fiving a bro in a hoodie at the next desk. About damn time.This article originally appeared on Skillcrush.